Thank you and hello in ItalianWith pronunciation, and the replies you'll hear back
Italian is written more or less as it sounds, so a respelling takes you a long way. The trap is not pronunciation, it is using the friendly words with people you have never met. Here are 18 phrases people actually use in Italy, plus southern Switzerland and San Marino, in the order worth learning them. The replies you will hear back are included too.
"Thank you" in Italian
Grazie
GRAHT-tsyeh
Two syllables, ending in "tsyeh". It is not "GRAT-see".
Thank you
Grazie
GRAHT-tsyeh
Hello (polite)
Buongiorno
bwohn-JOR-noh
From roughly mid afternoon, switch to Buonasera (bwoh-nah-SEH-rah).
Excuse me
Scusi
SKOO-zee
The polite form. Scusa is for friends only.
Yes / No
Sì / No
SEE / NOH
Please
Per favore
pehr fah-VOH-reh
The respelling is an approximation. Italian spelling is consistent, so this respelling will genuinely get you understood. Two things it cannot show well: doubled consonants are actually held longer (the double t in tutto is a real pause), and gli sounds roughly like the lli in million. The rolled r is worth attempting but nobody will misunderstand you without it.
Five phrases is genuinely enough for Italian
You do not need to work through a phrasebook before you go. Almost everything a traveller says falls into these five shapes, and they are listed under "Start with these five" above.
- Thank you … The one you will use most. If you learn a single word, make it this one.
- Hello … Said the moment you walk into a shop. Whether you say it changes how you are treated.
- Excuse me … Some languages split calling someone over and apologising into different words. Check the list above.
- How much is it? … Needed for every purchase and every meal. If you miss the number, ask them to show it.
- I don't understand … Without this you end up nodding along and walking off in the wrong direction.
Getting these five automatic beats memorising twenty. Twenty phrases you have to search your memory for are worth nothing at the moment you need them.
Ciao is for friends, never for shop staff
Ciao is the informal you, and Italians use it with family, friends and children. Saying it to a waiter, a shop assistant or hotel reception is overfamiliar, roughly like slapping a stranger on the back. Use Buongiorno until mid afternoon and Buonasera after, and Arrivederci when you leave. If you cannot judge the time of day or the formality, Salve (SAL-veh) is a safe neutral hello with anyone. Nobody will be offended by a tourist saying Ciao, but switching to Buongiorno visibly changes how you are treated.
The hard part is not speaking, it is understanding the reply
Almost every phrasebook only covers what you say. What actually stops people is the second after they finish talking, when the other person answers. How many of you. For here or to go. Card or cash. Go quiet and the exchange dies. Nod along and you get the wrong thing.
The good news is that the replies are a small, predictable set. Choose "You hear" in the list above and you will see only the ones that actually come back at you in Italy, plus southern Switzerland and San Marino. Reading them once before you go is most of the work.
If you still cannot catch it, ask them to write it down. Numbers and place names are far easier to read than to hear.
Say it clearly rather than say it perfectly
Italian spelling is consistent, so this respelling will genuinely get you understood. Two things it cannot show well: doubled consonants are actually held longer (the double t in tutto is a real pause), and gli sounds roughly like the lli in million. The rolled r is worth attempting but nobody will misunderstand you without it.
The usual failure is not a wrong vowel, it is going quiet because you are unsure. Keep it short, say it at normal volume, and finish the phrase in one breath. Everyone can tell you are a visitor attempting Italian, and if it does not land they will simply ask again. Copy the written form to your phone so you have something to show when speaking does not work.
Other languages
FAQ
Q.How do you say thank you in Italian?
Grazie, pronounced roughly GRAHT-tsyeh. Two syllables, ending in "tsyeh". It is not "GRAT-see". If you learn one word before you travel, make it this one. It works at the till, when someone gives you directions, and when someone gives up a seat.
Q.Will the pronunciation guide alone get me understood?
Italian spelling is consistent, so this respelling will genuinely get you understood. Two things it cannot show well: doubled consonants are actually held longer (the double t in tutto is a real pause), and gli sounds roughly like the lli in million. The rolled r is worth attempting but nobody will misunderstand you without it.
Q.How much should I learn before I go?
Five phrases. Thank you, hello, excuse me, how much is it, and I don't understand. That covers nearly every situation a traveller hits. Getting those five automatic matters far more than adding a sixth, because at the moment you need them there is no time to think.
Q.Why bother when I have a translation app?
For getting something done, the app wins. People still learn a few words because it changes how they are treated. In a 2025 Preply survey of 1,526 US adults, 47 percent of those who used the local language said locals treated them better, 80 percent said learning phrases before a trip is important, and 58 percent actually did it. A greeting is less about transferring information and more about signalling that you made an effort.
Q.I can ask the question, but I cannot understand the answer.
That is the most common way this goes wrong, and it is why this page includes the other side. Choose "You hear" in the list above to see only what gets said back to you in Italy, plus southern Switzerland and San Marino. There are not many variations: how many of you, eat in or take away, card or cash. Reading them once removes most of the surprise.
Q.Does this work offline?
Yes. Everything runs in the browser, with no account and nothing sent to a server. Open it once before you fly and it will usually still be there on the plane or in a dead zone. You can copy any phrase and show the screen when speaking does not work.
Reading a phrase is not the same as saying it
You can recognise every phrase on this page and still freeze at the counter, because there is no time to think. Inko lets you say Italian out loud to an AI for 60 seconds a day, and afterwards it shows you what you could have said instead. A week before you fly is enough to make a difference.